All clubs are different and many are dominated by one or two individuals who guide the club in their favourite direction but not all. If the club you are in seems to offer little look around there are a lot of other clubs and organisations. I am not a member of a local club but am a member of DEMU which although it is a national based organisation is very much a supportive and helpful organisation. if your local model railway club isn't giving you the help and support change clubs or join an organisation more specific to your chosen modelling area it is surprising just how many clubs and other railway modelling organisations are out there